Ambition is beautiful when it comes from your heart.
Be ambitious AF, set goals, and envision your future, but do it all without expectation.
Yep
That's the key to effortlessness, relaxed state of flow, MAGNETISM.
Expectation carries with it a root of disappointment. If you explore this for yourself you will see it. The expectations are already tinged with an expected disappointment, even though we may not want to see that.
And yes, there are times when your expectations do unfold as you envision, and then you think it's because of YOU and something you did and your control over the situation that made it happen.
Not true.
Control is not needed (although your mind will convince you otherwise).
When we let go of control, we let LIFE flow through and guide us.
We listen from the heart and attune to our body to what feels really joyful, aligned, expanded, and inspiring.
The body knows, the mind doubts
Set your goals but then let go of expectations of how it's supposed to unfold. Make your intentions and then let them unfurl like a beautiful fern - free from the constraints of expectations.
Intentions are creative and open when the intention comes from the heart.
Intentions don't need a specific outcome or need for it to be one way. This openness allows the magic of life to flow through you and show you pathways that you hadn't even thought of.
I often set an intention and then end with, 'this or something better'. Or you could say, "this or something wilder, this or something bigger, this or something simpler. It's an open door for life to support you in ways your mind couldn't imagine. Leave some room for that magic to unfurl.
If it feels odd not to take control and have expectations with your ambitious goals it's not surprising as most of us grew up in a patriarchal society and things were done in a more masculine mind-based way.
I encourage you to explore your feminine power of listening to your body, your gut, your intuition, your inner authority, and trust more and more in this part. The part that’s connected to divine source energy. Yes, it can feel scary, but keep going and learn to trust it. Find a friend or coach that can hold your hand if this is new territory for you where having ambition with heart means letting go of expectations in your intention setting and trusting in your intuitive signals of what to do and when.
Let the mind be a servant, in service to the divine feminine creative energy that guides us in this adventure of life showing us how to live in FLOW - Free, Liberated, Open, Wild.
Give it a go and see how you flow.
With love and gratitude,
Aesha
Love the title, Aesha. It is about letting go of expectation. From experience, it does hold the energy back. Creates disappointment and even a sense of failure. There is little room for the unexpected to happen or you simply don't see it or push it aside. So having ambition with Heart is so opening and freeing. A great reminder.